Keep a Kissing Routine

Often in the beginning of a relationship, the kissing is what sets us on fire for each other. We love to kiss each other, and the kissing often leads to other activities as it rightly should. Once the newness of the relationship wears off and sometimes when other issues creep into the relationship, kissing is one of the first things to go. To heat up your relationship on a regular basis, make sure kissing is part of your regular routine.

Studies show that kissing reduces the levels of the stress hormone cortisol in both sexes and raises the levels of oxytoxin, a hormone normally associated with bonding. Kissing also facilitates the exchange of pheromones between a couple, helping to incite the attraction which first drew them together. Kissing is also attributed to an exchange of testosterone from the male to the female. This slight hormonal surge might be enough to help fuel a woman’s sexual desire. Kissing also has a biologic component. Sharing natural germs with someone you are close to boosts your overall internal defense system.

Deep, passionate kissing mimics the conditions of the genitalia during sex, which is why the act of kissing immediately gets our minds wandering to other things. The lips are highly sensitive in most people as is the tongue. The slow, sensual kiss that gradually builds into a more heated exploration triggers a flood or hormones throughout the body and leaves us wanting more.

If your love life is a little on the slow side and you’ve noted a lack of kissing might be to blame, make it a habit to kiss each other every day. Don’t just peck each other on the lips and then run. Hold each other, touch each other and make sure those kissing last for at least 30 seconds. For best results, make sure you always have great kissing breath, and then get busy kissing!

Is There More Than One Type Of Kissing?

Kissing has to be one of the best ways in the world to show good emotions. At this very moment I can’t think about a negative impact of kissing. Oh sure we have heard about bad kissers but even bad kissers don’t hurt any one.

There are a number of different ways to kiss. There are passionate, friendly, playful and many different variations of kisses. They all depend on moods and relationship of people. A quick kiss in the morning to say bye to your wife is very different then the kiss that is associated with a long night of passion. Kissing is probably the most intimate act in today’s society.

1. French Kiss

Of course we have all heard of the French Kiss. It’s probably the most passionate and romantic kiss that can be exchanged by two lovers. Simply put a French Kiss is when two partners kiss with open mouths and their tongues touch. The partners use their tongues to explore each others mouths. They can play with each others tongues in many different kinds of ways.

2. Surprise Kiss

This kiss is another passionate one but it’s designed to surprise your partner and to convey intensity. The time this kiss is used is when your lover is busy doing something. They can be working, studying or just be absorbed by something else when you walk up to them with no words exchanged you just start kissing them. The kiss is always a nice reminder of your love for your partner. Through out the kiss you can decide whether this kiss should go further or if you should just end it and let your partner get back to what they were doing.

3. Lips Kiss

The lips kiss is another very romantic kiss but this one focuses on the lips instead of the inside of the mouth. This kiss can bring up huge passions in your partner. What is involved here is lightly biting and sucking on the lips. It could eventually lead to a French kiss if you want it to.

4. Fast Kiss

This kiss is just meant as a quick reminder to your partner that you care about them. This kiss is usually used when each partner is in a hurry or they are headed some where. Personally this kiss is very important to me because it reassures me through the day that my lover will be there at the end of the day.

There, of course are no hard fast rules in the art of kissing. You and your partner will have your own ways of expressing your love to one another. It is however the most common form of showing love in the world so you can never go wrong by kissing your partner.

Let Kissing Liven Up Your Meetings (and More Kissing Tips)

Every now and then a quarrel breaks out down at the barber shop, lines are drawn, challenges leveled and, with any luck, somebody walks out with very few blood stains. All over a seemingly innocent discussion: What is the greatest sport ever?

Some say “football”. Some say “baseball”. Canadians say “hockey”. The rest of the world says “soccer”. (Actually, they say “football”, too…but they mean “soccer”.

I say: “kissing”. Yes, kissing is the greatest sport ever. Allow me to recount just a few of the reasons.

Kissing is a very versatile sport. There are so many kisses – at least one for each occasion. There is the peck on the cheek kiss, the peck on each cheek kiss, the peck on your nephew’s cheek kiss while grabbing the other cheek flab with your hand, the madly passionate kiss, the kiss on the hand, the kiss of death, the “Hey you! Kiss this!”, and even the town of Kissimmee (founded by early Italian pioneer kissers) in Florida.

Kissing is easy to transport. It really doesn’t matter where you are. You can kiss: at the gym, in the boardroom, in the space shuttle, even in Alaska from June through September.

Kissing requires very little equipment, meaning you can do it even when unprepared, and even when you have to travel light. This makes it the ideal participation sport for businessmen, world travelers and hang gliders

Kissing always livens things up. Try this: the next time you are in a booooring meeting that seems to last foreeeeever, why not just kiss somebody. See how it livens things up?

Kissing is legal in all 50 states and most countries. Rumors are circulating that kissing will even be legalized soon on Mars, Jupiter and in Afghanistan.

Kissing is 100% biodegradable, so when you kiss somebody, you help the environment.

Kissing is safe to do in a moving vehicle, as long as you are not driving.

Kissing is non toxic…unless you kiss somebody who has just swallowed a bottle of Drano. Even so, kissing is still safe, as long as you avoid the mouth area.

Kissing is non-fattening. This is perhaps the best news of all, because now dieters have something to keep their mouths busy while not eating, and smokers can quit smoking without having to chew candies until they a) need to diet or b) induce diabetes. (Read the headline: “Kissing prevents diabetes”)

Kissing is organic, low in sodium, preservative-free, low in saturated fats and does not contain dozens of delicious ingredients that cannot be pronounced, like javelchromopntheoremicherbicidic acid.

Most kisses are not tested on animals, but who am I to stifle your sense of adventure.

You can kiss just about everyone: your boyfriend, your aunt, your wife, your veterinarian, the Prime Minister of the Duchy of Grand Fenwick and your pet aardvark. Don’t try kissing them all at the same time, though…especially not your boyfriend and your wife.

Kissing meets the toughest safety regulations of any national or international sporting organization. Kissing has a tremendous safety record, except for the occasional locked braces. But a quick call for a AAA tow truck fixes that problem (CAA in Canada, AA in the UK, the local plumber in France)

The only recorded deaths involving kissing are by third parties, usually wives, husbands, spurned lovers and other spectators who somehow get past security and storm onto the playing field.

There are a few kisses we recommend you avoid. These are often referred to as “extreme kissing”. Don’t kiss an on-duty sumo wrestler; it is considered dangerous. Don’t kiss a metal fence-post in sub-zero weather; readers in northern climates know exactly what I mean. Don’t kiss any electrical outlets. Don’t kiss the vacuum cleaner if you want to retain all your vital organs. It’s OK to kiss sandpaper, just don’t use your tongue. Don’t kiss a chainsaw; we feel this one is self-explanatory. And don’t kiss your office manager while on duty…unless you happen to be a work-from-home hermit like me.

But overall, kissing is so great that it makes baseball, hockey, football and soccer seem like bush league sports. Next time you hear a brawl at your local barbershop, just go in and give everyone a kiss. I guarantee that you will win the argument hands down. And if not, at least you will make some new friends to argue with.