You Must Remember This – It Matters Why and When You Kiss

It was a lovely, and pretty typical, Friday evening. The kids were out with friends and the house was all theirs. They were snuggled together on the couch watching this week’s movie choice. They took turns choosing the movie of the week.

Tonight’s movie was a classic, Casablanca. They both knew it well and enjoyed it every time. They hadn’t watched it in awhile, but when the song came on, “As time goes by”, they both sang along. At the end, they sighed, smiled at each other, and, naturally, kissed to mark the line, “A kiss is just a kiss.”

When the movie ended, Tia turned to Tucker and said, “I liked that kiss. We should do more of that.”

Tucker, recognizing his cue, immediately kissed her gently on the lips. Tia smiled and said, “I like that.” After a couple of moments, Tia said, “Tucker, why don’t we kiss more often? We used to kiss all the time. People used to tease us about the dangers of chapped lips. When did we stop kissing so much?”

Tucker wrinkled his forehead as he considered the question. “Hmm. I don’t know the answer, but I think I know the solution.” And he pulled her closer and locked lips with her. This time it wasn’t so much a gentle kiss as a suggestive one. The suggestion was made all the more obvious by the way he was pulling against her.

To his confusion, Tia pulled away and started talking again.

“Whoa, Tucker. That is not where I was going with the conversation.”

“Tia, we just watched one of the most romantic movies ever made. Then you made a point about us kissing more. I thought our direction was pretty obvious.” Tucker wasn’t so much angry as he was just completely confused. But he was not a novice at this marriage communication thing; he had skills! He reoriented and sat back a bit. He made eye contact and made an inquiry, smiling so that Tia felt that he was on her side.

“Okay, Tia, help me understand what you were thinking.”

Tia had learned to trust that Tucker really wanted to know, so she explained.

“I think we’ve gotten so familiar and casual with each other and so busy that we don’t often stop and just connect through kissing. Kissing means we have to stop doing everything else and just for those few moments be totally with each other. It’s a lovely thing, but I think it’s an interruption of a sort that we don’t often make time or thought for.”

Tucker nodded. This made sense to him. They’d even made do too often with just making a kissing gesture across the room when one or the other of them left the house.

But, looking at Tia, Tucker had a suspicion that there was another thought there that she needed to share.

“Tia, there’s something else on your mind. Spill it.” He smiled at her to encourage her to speak freely.

“Well, I think it was more than just time going by. I may have to take some responsibility for this. I think I started to avoid kissing you because I didn’t want to raise your expectations. A lot of the time when we’d kiss, especially if I initiated the kiss, you took it from gentle affection to something more passionate. And then it would seem that you expected it to evolve into sex. I didn’t want to give you that message all the time. So I think I just stopped kissing. But I really miss the kissing.”

Tia looked sad.

Tucker looked thoughtful. His forehead wrinkled again.

“Well, I guess I have to share that responsibility. It’s pretty much true that I would like most of those kisses to be passionate and to lead to more. You’re always beautiful to me, Tia, and I almost always want to be passionate with you. But you’ve explained to me before that your mindset isn’t always in that place, so I guess I get that the passionate stuff doesn’t always feel welcome or well-timed.”

Tia smiled broadly and lovingly at Tucker when she heard how well he had listened and how well he understood her feelings, even when they were different from his own.

Tucker hit the jackpot when he then said, “So how about I just follow your lead if you take the kiss up a notch?” At which point she most clearly did.

Kiss a Girl Tips You Should Try – The Kind of Kisses She Craves!

Whoever said that a kiss is just a kiss was simply misguided — a kiss should definitely be something special. Girls, for one thing, view a kiss as something intimate and sacred and should be shared with someone they totally like. Of course, there are some more liberated girls who kiss and tell but one thing’s for sure — the swoon over guys who kiss like a pro. You wouldn’t actually have to sign up for actual classes (although that sounds pretty tempting) — below are a few kiss a girl tips you’d be crazy not to try — find out the kisses that she craves best now!

  • The playful kiss. Teasing her before the actual kiss (Read: French kissing) is a must if you want your girl to get all excited and thrilled for your next kisses. It pays to be a guy who’s full of surprises. Don’t just get stuck on tongue kissing alone — explore her lips while making her moan and get her anticipating for more of your tricks later on — she’ll be all over you all night long.
  • The passionate kiss. Start slow and easy and then intensify it until it explodes into a mind-blowing passionate kiss — you get the picture. It’s like the kiss made in romantic novels and films — everything is just pure passion and love. Girls love this one and they definitely want you to get all intense and a little rough too.
  • The adventurous kiss. This ones a bit unconventional and sure is fiery — the adventurous kiss does not involve the mouth and the tongue alone — it involves necking, petting and caressing all throughout. Keep your hands busy during the kiss — caress her back, cup her face — anything. Just make her feel you’re praising her body and making her feel beautiful and desired.
  • The sexy kiss. The sexy kiss is a bit of a teaser as well — it’s kissing and dirty talking at the same time. You punctuate each word with a kiss and tell her your plans and fantasies inside your head — she’s totally turned on. It’s also one way to get her in the mood if you want to take things further.

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Kissing Tips For Men

From the time that a girl is young she’s used to kissing as her only means of showing affection. So from an early age they put a lot of weight into kissing. A lot of men no matter how old or young are ready to just get down to business and do the nasty deed. They don’t understand that some women, if not most women judge men more based on how well of a kisser they are before thinking of what could happen down the line.

It’s not that men don’t like kissing, they’re often just too eager for their own good. And a lot of women are turned off by this, kissing is something that women take very seriously and men need to learn how to appreciate it more, but how do men learn how to appreciate kissing more then the anticipation of sex?

Well first they need to remember what makes kissing so special in the first place. They need to remember how excited they were when they were young at the thought of kissing a girl for the first time. If they can remember this then maybe they can learn how to appreciate it more as adult men. So what can you do to remember the joy of kissing? Here are a few things that you can begin to do today to experience that electricity that went down your spine the first time you would kiss a girl.

Remember the anticipation:

First you need to remember the anticipation that you felt when you were first dating a girl. You weren’t thinking of sex or any kind of sexual contact at that point, you were just thinking about how awkward it would be that first-time kissing her and how much you were going to enjoy it. It was the anticipation that made it exciting, even if it was just a peck on the lips you still felt that jolt shoot down your spine. Close your eyes and try to remember that, it will help you to understand more of where a woman is coming from and why she enjoys kissing so much.

See it as a strong display of affection:

As I mentioned earlier, some women if not a lot of women see kissing as more of a display of affection than sex itself. This is why you need to make sure that you are good at it. Women judge a man based on how well of a kisser he is. They feel that if a man is not a good kisser then you will probably not be too good in bed either. If this is the case then you will not even get to the bed if you can’t master the kissing part first. So make sure, especially when you are kissing a woman for the first time, that you relax and let things flow naturally, just enjoy it and think of nothing else.

See it as a sign of things to come:

You have to learn to see kissing as a sign of things to come. That way you will go the extra mile to make sure that you do it right. You’ll make sure that you don’t rush things and she will see you as a patient guy. She will go to sleep at night filled with anticipation of what it will be like to be with you down the line. The rare exception to the rule is the girl that doesn’t like to kiss, but this extremely rare as most women like to kiss so it is a good idea to learn how to appreciate the art. Remember kissing is a display of affection and the more affectionate you are seen as the more appreciated you’ll be.

Guys can learn to love kissing just like women love kissing. They just have to learn that kissing is not just something that you do before sex. They need to learn how to appreciate it for the loving act that it is. Not to sound corny or anything, but once you learn how to appreciate kissing, believe it or not, women will appreciate you much more. So remember that the next time you decide you don’t want to kiss a woman.